Since the birth of Charlie & Jackson.  It is amazing how much difference a week or even a day can make in your life.  It makes you re-evaluate everything.  If the boys had been at almost 24 weeks when my water broke would it have made a difference? There is no way to know.  We focus on what we do know to help us through.  The week between then and now has shed so much light on the things that matter.  Our love for our sons is beyond words as is our love for each other and we are stronger together than we ever were before.  Family matters.  Love matters.  Friends matter.  Being together matters, the rest is just stuff that fills the in between.